We each have a
certain way on how we perceive the world. How I perceive the world is through the
lens of being an artist. I instantly notice colors, their tints and shades, the
form and design of things and I understand everything through the creative
process. (Which is kind of like the scientific method…but not at all.)
When I was studying
Art in college, we would constantly discuss two things (during 4+ hour
critiques for which there was never enough coffee): what is the purpose of an
artist and what is ‘controversial’.
What I consider to
be the purpose of an artist is the ability to see something, to deconstruct an
idea to its most basic elements and then to reconstruct in order to give the
viewer a novel and different perspective.
I have come to
define controversial as something that will make you stop and forces you to
truly think it through, for you to really reconsider and reevaluate the purpose
and existence of something.
So when I first
decided to blog again, I actually started a year ago with a different blog and a
very different format. My original idea was just a place pick up on my writing
again and to talk about my art, music, life, ect. I would end up writing a few short
entries and forgetting about it.
In May, I decided
to create another blog and attempt to keep up with it again. The idea was still
the same, just a place to express myself.
Then I wrote a
little post in July about church and it changed everything.
When I wrote it, I
was trying to get over my own personal hurt with a little humor and hope. This
post took a whole life of its own by going viral (close to 1,000 hits, and the
blog itself, close to 3,000). Everyday since I have posted, at least one person
reads it. It changed the whole idea of what this blog was going to be about. Now
this blog has more of an intense focus on how Faith juxtaposes with everything
else in life.
I have received
(and continue to receive) a lot of feedback from my entries. Some of it was
encouragement, some could relate, some missed my points entirely, and, as
expected, there was a lot of negative criticisms. But I did receive a lot of
one thing that I was not expecting: I received a lot of warnings.
Questions like:
“Are you doing this
for the right reasons?”
“Do you realize how
this could be perceived?”
Most of the warning
came from people who genuinely care about me and wanted to make sure I was
okay. But it really did make me question what I was doing.
In the last month
or so, I have felt so much fear and doubt about this. This has been an incredible
struggle for me. I’ve had paralyzing writers block for weeks. Uncertainty began
to fill me. I was concerned that people will think I’m angry and I want bring
down the church. That I just wanted to stir up pointless, argumentative debate.
Was I really doing this for the right reasons?
Then I started
thinking, what are those right reasons?
My blog is still a form of expression, but
in a different way now. This blog isn’t about me anymore.
I understand the
taboo nature of the topic I have been addressing. I understand it makes people
uncomfortable. This will not be a place
where I want to drag people down, call out names, point fingers, gossip,
complain and blame others. I’m not here for you to pick sides that I’m right
and ‘they’re’ wrong. And yes, I can be labeled as some one who has been ‘wounded
by the church.’ I have been hurt, but that does not make what I say worthless.
In art, when
someone wants to critique a large work, or to just focus on a detail on
anything or to simply see something in a different way, oftentimes they will
make a viewfinder. A viewfinder is when you cut out a small 1in square in the
middle of a piece of paper. When you look through the small square, it forces
you to see things in a different, more focused perspective.
When I first heard
the song Hosanna around four years ago, the lyrics really hit home for me.
Heal my heart and make it clean
Open up my eyes to the things unseen
Show me how to love like You have loved me
Break my heart from what breaks Yours
Everything I am for Your kingdoms cause
As I go from nothing to
Eternity
Open up my eyes to the things unseen
Show me how to love like You have loved me
Break my heart from what breaks Yours
Everything I am for Your kingdoms cause
As I go from nothing to
Eternity
These words became
my prayer and it’s a dangerous prayer to pray. To ask God all of these things
is like walking out to a fierce battle. To heal my heart and make it clean? I
had to let go all of my hurt and my own bitterness. That was the only way I can
open my eyes to the things I could not see with my human eyes, to see things
how God sees. Which means to see the things we tend to ignore, the things we
don’t like to see. God, show me how to love like You have loved me, to love
everyone with a love of absolute and total forgiveness, no favoritism and with
complete sacrifice.
Break my heart for
what breaks Yours, I can no longer be apathetic and selfish. I want to feel
deeply and passionately for others, in their happiness and joy as well as in
their pain and suffering. I want to feel conviction in my soul when something
is wrong. And everything I am for the purpose of Your Kingdom. Everything I am.
To be utterly humble in this life as we continue to eternity.
That prayer has
become my view and God my Viewfinder.
The right reason
for this blog is that God has called me to do this. When He calls you to do
anything, I have come to realize in my short time on this earth, is that He
gives you a passion or a vision and He will lead you one step at a time. With
that comes paralyzing doubt, people will criticize you, and will more or
less just hate you (ex: Abraham, Joseph, Nehemiah, Jesus’ disciples, Paul, anyone
called to ministry.) I know I could never do this on my own. If I did do this
on my own, for my own name and glory, it will definitely be a failure (Acts 5:34-39).
The purpose of this
blog is to be what I was created to be. When God stirs something within me, I
will deconstruct ideas and reconstruct them best I can for my viewers to
provoke your thoughts and to truly reconsider things.
Yeah, I guess it could be
called controversial.
Because of my blog 'Prisons, Pits & God-Awful Places...I was very nicely but clearly shown the door of my church. I've never written another post. I have also edited my own thoughts because of people passing judgment on our FB & tweets. Labels are a terrifying 'yoke' to bear. Leaders do that so they don't have to admit to their own faults & change. It hurts...no wait, I can't say hurts, cause that means I'm bitter. Honest, transparent people always pay a price. Glad you have the courage to pay it.
ReplyDeleteHey Friend :)
ReplyDeleteIts a strange balance of editing, especially as a christian. Sometimes it isn't your place, sometimes it's just not the right time or the right words. Then writer's block comes in. My judgement call is always, will this edify God? How does this glorify Him more? That's my editing. And oftentimes labels create more division. If someone in the body is hurt, we all hurt- not condemn.
I encourage to keep writing and seek God :)
Hey momma :] I love you and admire you so much. You have a gift for speaking the undeniable truth, and I'm so glad you're not afraid to. Anyone who has ever made a difference has had controversy surround them. Love you friend and support you completely. :] xoxoxo
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful Blog!
ReplyDeleteThough the eyes of a child, it took me into my old age to see what you are seeing now. Now I wish I could have a do over; be a better husband and father to love and care for others more.
But with life there are no do over’s, you can not re right your pass. But you can start again.
1st Forgive anyone that has hurt you or wronged you in any way.
2nd (And please be careful to listen to what I am saying here.) You have to kill off the old you (NOT in the Real Sense) but in the spiritual sense.
We must stop giving are flash what it what’s and give everything to our sprit, in other words “stop sinning”.
Putting ourselves first is a sin and it is why we get hurt and worst it is why we hurt others.
The problem with the church it is full of sinners and the worst kind of sinner, “the forgiven sinner” you see, some how we missed the point the whole reason JESUS came was not just to die for us but to show us how to die.
JESUS is GOD the creator of all things. All Powerful, All Knowing and yet HE put himself aside and walked among us. HE never raised HIS self above us in fact HE got down in the dirt and washed our feet, HE touched our sick bodies, HE helped the prostitute, had diner with tax collators, HE feed the hungry. And HE did this all without asking for anything in return. And He did it with great love.
HE could have become the leader of the biggest church in the world and became rich, he could have charged people to heal them or forgive their sins.
People would have paid to hear HIM speak or touch HIM and buy a t-shirt with HIS face on it. Yes, JESUS could have made it all about HIM.
But HE didn’t, HE made it all about us.
HE died for the 2nd time on the cross for us, but HE die the first time for us by being born as a man and putting HIM self no different then us.
When you look at someone on the street and they are dirty and smell or their gay or a druggy, a prostitute (or the member of a church) and you put yourself above them.
You are also saying you are above GOD because HE put his life down for
them.
So again “stop sinning” this is the hard one for most people to get and understand.
I here it all the time “we all sin” “no one is perfect” and my favorite “there was only one perfect man and your no Jesus” “That’s way Jesus died for us”
But it is not way JESUS died for us, it was not so the we could keep sinning and braking GOD’s laws and JESUS would make sure we got off in court when GOD judged us.
HE came to show us how to follow the rules, what the rules where and then to die and forgive the people who followed HIS rules but had old sins from before they killed off self and started following the law’s of GOD.
GOD can not have sin in Heaven or anywhere near HIM. So if we can’t stop sinning then we can’t he near HIM.
End of part one of my comment
Kristen, thank you for your terrific blog. I am much older than you, but I have more friends from your generation than mine, because your generation carries the passion and fire for God that has burned in my own heart for over 30 years. I look forward as a Caleb/Joshua, to entering the promised land with you 20 and 30 somethings.
ReplyDeleteYou have encouraged me to follow the vision that God put in my heart, by following yours. Carry the flame, and never worry about what anyone thinks. Pleasing Jesus is all that matters. God Bless you!